A July Wedding?

If everything goes as planned I am getting married next month. His name is Jim and is 57 years old.
I will get a picture tonight of him to post on here for you all to see.
He's been single for two years now vs my 7 years. I told him it may take more of me getting use to the idea that I would be married than him. But we have been talking and I think everything will be right as rain.
There is one thing that I need to do before getting married that concern getting my personal affairs together, other than that I think we would have just gotten a JP and gotten married last week. I have known him for nearly a year and Wednesday the 4th of July Jim and immediate members of his family along with Sydney and I(8 in all) are going to get together at a local Cracker Barrel-like restaurant called Ole Saw Mill Cafe for a,"Hello I am the woman marrying your father" meeting.
I will be known as Mrs. Curry for the sake of Sydney and my sanity of not having to deal with all the name changing that I would DREAD like the plague in this day and age. He seems to be OK with that as well.
Sydney has taken to him quite well and asks about Jim when he is not here. Of course my dogs greet him like they do me, licks so wet that you need a bath upon entering the doorway. Love me love my dog- so very true